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  • Keeping Time With the Land: How Seasonal Living Can Help You Slow Down

    Keeping Time With the Land: How Seasonal Living Can Help You Slow Down

    What the seasons can teach us about slowing down, finding balance, and belonging
    A version of this essay appears in the January 8, 2026 edition of the Dodge County Pionier.

    Ask most people how they measure time today, and the answers sound familiar: alarms, deadlines, color‑coded calendars, the endless scroll of days on a glowing screen. Phone notifications cut across dinner, school schedules slice afternoons into drop‑offs and pickups, and the next bill due date is never far from mind.

    Where I live, time follows a different rhythm—guided not by screens but by the soil itself.

    My family keeps time by the signals nature gives: sap rising in March, turtles crossing the road in May, fireflies at dusk in June, corn drying into gold by October. A cold north wind can say “November” more clearly than any app. These cycles remind us that time isn’t a race toward exhaustion; it’s a loop—a pattern of effort, rest, and return.

    In a world obsessed with productivity, the land offers a quiet lesson: slowing down isn’t falling behind. It’s catching up to what matters.

    Winter: the radical act of rest

    When the holidays end and snow hushes the fields, stillness takes hold. The world outside the window turns soft and muted, as if someone turned down the volume. Days stretch long. Nights invite reading, conversation, and quiet.

    In modern life, that slowness often gets labeled “unproductive.” Inbox counters climb even as the sun sets before dinner. But in the rural calendar, winter is preparation—the season the earth itself uses to heal. Under the frozen top layer, roots are resting, waiting for their cue.

    Inside, a different kind of work takes over: soup on the stove, a deck of cards on the table, a cat snoring near the heat register. There’s no badge for this kind of work, but the house feels fuller for it.

    Winter offers permission to pause. Even without a farm or a woodstove, anyone can claim a bit of that wisdom: choose a few evenings when nothing is scheduled, let the phone stay in another room, and let the quiet do its work.

    Spring: a rehearsal for renewal

    Spring announces itself quietly at first—a drip of meltwater from the eaves, the smell of mud, the first bird that sings before sunrise. One morning the snow looks tired; the next, you notice a thin green line where the lawn meets the sidewalk.

    We tap trees and plant seeds, acts that serve no instant gratification. The sap runs clear and cold, one slow drop after another into plastic jugs. Seed trays sit under lights, all dirt and hope, for weeks before anything green appears. Yet when syrup warms pancakes or sprouts unfurl in a window box, you can taste reward drawn from patience.

    Spring teaches urgency without panic. Ramps, asparagus, morels, and rhubarb arrive in a rush, then slip away as if they were never there. The season reminds us that beginnings are not one-time events but recurring invitations. The world doesn’t ask, “Did you start perfectly?” It asks, “Are you willing to start again?”

    You don’t need a sugar bush or a greenhouse to feel this. A single pot of herbs on a balcony, or a commitment to walk the same city block once a week and notice what’s blooming, can turn spring into a ritual rather than a blur.

    And after that first rush of green, the land hardly pauses—by July, it’s in full voice.

    Summer: where work and joy meet

    By midsummer, everything hums. In the afternoon heat, insects buzz like a low electric current in the fields. Lawnmowers start and stop up and down the street. Windows are open, and someone, somewhere, is grilling.

    Gardens overflow. Tomatoes split if you don’t pick them in time. Zucchini multiplies on the counter and quietly appears on neighbors’ doorsteps. Kids shriek through sprinklers, leaving wet footprints on hot pavement. Even the air smells different: cut grass, sunscreen, diesel from a tractor on a distant road.

    Like the growing season, our best days often mix effort with enjoyment. Summer’s lesson is simple: work and joy are not enemies. They often belong in the same hour. There is satisfaction in going to bed with dirt under your fingernails and the memory of a late sunset still bright in your mind.

    The reward for effort can be as close as a ripe berry, a shared picnic in a city park, or a tired, happy body at the end of a long, light-filled day.

    Autumn: gratitude and gathering

    Autumn softens the light and sharpens the air. Mornings carry that first hint of frost, and you can see your breath if you step outside before the sun gets serious. Leaves turn from green to gold and red, then crunch underfoot in the driveway.

    The season’s abundance—pumpkins on porches, apples piled in crates, shelves lined with jars and loaves—reminds us how much depends on cooperation: between people, earth, and time. No one person makes a harvest alone. There are seed savers, farm workers, truck drivers, grocers, and cooks all woven into the meal.

    Gratitude, in this season, isn’t just a word reserved for a single holiday. It’s the habit of looking at an ordinary table—soup, bread, a piece of fruit—and seeing the many hands and seasons that brought it there.

    Even in an apartment, autumn can become a practice of gathering: inviting friends over for a simple pot of chili, walking through a park under changing trees, or taking five extra minutes to watch the early dark settle in instead of rushing past it.

    What circles can teach a linear world

    When winter returns, it’s easy to see it as a setback: dark, cold, the end of something. But the more closely the seasons are watched, the clearer it becomes that time does not move in a straight line. It hums in a circle.

    Each season brings another chance to begin again—not by doing more, but by noticing more. The calendar on the wall may march from one square to the next, but the world outside repeats its old, trustworthy patterns: thaw, bloom, heat, harvest, rest.

    Wherever you live—city or countryside—you can keep time with the land in your own way. Let January be a little slower. Let spring mean at least one meal built around what is fresh where you are. Let summer include a night spent outdoors until it’s fully dark. Let autumn carry a moment of thanks, even if it’s just whispered over a sink full of dishes.

    The land has never hurried. It always arrives where it should. Maybe we can too, if we’re willing to step out of the race now and then and walk in circles for a while instead.

    How could you bring a bit of seasonal balance into your daily routine? Please let me know below in the comments.

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    The Quiet Wealth of These Fields

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  • When Nostalgia Sneaks In: A Journey Through Music, Memories, and Meaning

    When Nostalgia Sneaks In: A Journey Through Music, Memories, and Meaning

    What makes you feel nostalgic?

    You never expect it—the way a few chords of a song or the smell of something sizzling in the kitchen can throw open a door straight into your past. Nostalgia sneaks in quietly like that. One moment, I’m focused on the day in front of me, and the next, I’m somewhere else entirely—caught between who I was and who I’ve become.

    The Sound of Self-Discovery
    For me, music is the quickest time machine. Just a few seconds of a song, and I’m back in the place where it first meant something.

    When “Fix You” by Coldplay plays, I’m no longer folding laundry or driving home—I’m back in my college dorm room, freshman year. The lights were harsh, the walls thin, and life felt uncertain in that way it only does when you’re eighteen and still finding your place in the world. I’d wait for my roommate to leave, turn up the volume, and sing at the top of my lungs—no audience, no expectations, just a girl trying to make peace with herself, one verse at a time.

    A Taste of Freedom
    A few years later, life expanded far beyond that dorm room. When I taste pupusas, I’m taken back to my first time traveling internationally—a trip to San Salvador where I turned twenty-one. That birthday was wrapped in humidity, adventure, and the quiet thrill of doing something new and a little bit scary.

    I remember sitting in a small open-air restaurant, watching the cook press pupusas by hand—pinto beans and cheese sealed inside dough, sizzling on the griddle. The first bite was simple but unforgettable: chewy, salty, rich, and alive with flavor. Maybe it tasted like freedom.

    Or maybe it just marked the moment I realized how big the world really was.

    Even now, I still try to recreate them at home. My husband doesn’t quite share the same fascination. They never taste exactly like they did that day. For me, they carry the rush of youth and discovery and the quiet joy of realizing how travel can stretch your sense of home.

    A Song for the Road Ahead
    Years later, nostalgia found me again. It was during a bittersweet season of change. It was wrapped in the opening chords of “Helplessness Blues” by Fleet Foxes. I can still see it clearly. Our Subaru Crosstrek was packed with the last of our things as we left what I used to call our “dream home”.

    My husband drove ahead in another vehicle. I followed behind, six months pregnant with our daughter. Our three-year-old son was strapped into his car seat. He watched out the window, humming softly. The sky was that early-summer color somewhere between gray and blue. It was the kind that feels like an ellipsis instead of a period.

    As we drove, I sang along for my son, voice steady, heart full. We’d listened to Fleet Foxes so often that summer. He had chosen his own favorite song, “Quiet Houses.” He adorably called it “the Meh-me-gah song.” That tiny mispronunciation still makes me smile. It’s one of those details you don’t realize will someday become its own memory.

    If “Fix You” reminds me who I was becoming, “Helplessness Blues” reminds me how far I’d come and how much life can change when you’re not looking.

    Laughter That Lasts
    And then there’s “Jump Around.” That one doesn’t carry reflection—it’s pure, unfiltered joy. It takes me straight back to Camp Randall Stadium, surrounded by thousands of college students in a sea of red and white. We jumped in unison until the stands shook beneath our feet. Later, it made its way into every wedding of my college friends—ties loosened, heels kicked off, laughter spilling loud and unrestrained.

    Every time that song comes on, I catch a glimpse of all those versions of me—young, hopeful, tired, happy—and somehow, they all still belong to each other.

    Memory You Can Taste and Hear
    Music and food both have that power—to transport, to remind, to reawaken. Each song and flavor brings back a different version of who I’ve been, like pages from a well-loved journal I never meant to write but somehow did through living.

    Nostalgia reminds me that our lives are stitched together by these small, unforgettable moments—songs, tastes, and places that once felt ordinary but now glow quietly in memory. It isn’t just remembering; it’s re-feeling. Every sensory spark reveals how much of us we carry forward, even without realizing it.

    Maybe that’s what nostalgia really is—not a longing for the past, but a gentle reminder that who we were still lives within who we are. And when it sneaks up on me, I don’t resist it. I just pause, smile, and let the moment wash over me—one note, one flavor, one heartbeat at a time.

    What sparks nostalgia for you? A song, a recipe, a smell you can’t forget? I’d love to hear what brings your favorite memories rushing back—share your story in the comments below.

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  • Holiday Traditions That Root Us: Family, Food, and Connection on the Homestead

    Holiday Traditions That Root Us: Family, Food, and Connection on the Homestead

    Every December, I feel the year take a deep, satisfied breath. The first frost settles on the garden beds and the house grows quiet under early sunsets.

    The holidays don’t arrive in a rush of gifts or glitter. They come as a gentle exhale. It’s an invitation to pause, look back, and give thanks for all we’ve built together as a family.

    The Joy of Holiday Cards

    One of my favorite ways to mark the season is through the tradition of holiday cards. Each one feels like a small window into someone’s life. There’s a handwritten note, a new baby’s smile, a captured moment of love.

    We hang the cards over our doorway. That way, each time we step outside, we pass under a colorful arch of friendship and memory. It’s a daily reminder that while we may live miles apart, the ties that bind us remain close and bright.

    The Tree That Tells Our Story

    Our Christmas tree may not be grand or freshly cut. It’s an old artificial one, gifted by a coworker more than a decade ago. The branches are slightly bent, and a few bulbs refuse to light. Yet when we pull it from the box each year, it feels like greeting an old friend.

    Each ornament holds a fragment of our story. There are handmade trinkets from the kids, crocheted snowflakes from my mother-in-law, and treasures from years past. The tree stands as a quiet symbol of continuity and gratitude. It reminds me that beauty often lives in what endures.

    Simple Joys and Shared Stories

    Every season brings a moment to slow down and savor the familiar. I always find myself rewatching It’s a Wonderful Life.

    George Bailey’s struggles and small joys remind me that even in life’s messiest seasons, there’s beauty in simply showing up. I carry that spirit into my workplace, too. Working remotely most of the year, my in-person time with coworkers feels extra special.

    There’s an ease in sharing stories beyond the screen. We share laughter over drinks, conversations that meander like old friendships, and the reminder that connection doesn’t depend on proximity.

    A Season for Sweetness

    At home, the kitchen becomes the heart of the season. The air fills with the scent of butter, cinnamon, and sugar—the unmistakable signal that it’s cookie time.

    My favorite tradition, though, is baking kranz kuchen. It’s a tender, yeasted bread folded with hickory nuts, brown sugar, cinnamon, and dates. The recipe has been passed down through generations. Every year we forage the hickory nuts ourselves.

    There’s something sacred about that ritual. We gather food from the land, turn it into something fragrant and celebratory, and share it with those I love.

    Gifts Made of Experience

    Instead of focusing on material gifts, our family gives each other an experience every year.

    A few winters ago, we wandered through the glowing quiet of Cave of the Mounds. Last year, our son’s eyes lit up at the Manitowoc Maritime Museum as he marveled at the USS Cobia.

    This year, we’re heading to Oshkosh to see the light show, visit the EAA Museum, and end the day with dinner and laughter at the Mineshaft. These experiences spark curiosity and wonder. They remind me that time and attention are the greatest gifts we can give our children.

    Gathered Around the Table

    Christmas Eve dinner with my parents is the anchor of the season.

    We gather around a table filled with food that tells our story. The main coarse is pork roast from pigs we raised and sauerkraut made from cabbage grown in my parents’ garden. It’s more than a meal. It’s a celebration of patience, hard work, and the quiet rhythm of the land that sustains us. Every bite tastes like gratitude made tangible.

    The next day, we join my in-laws for a night of laughter, games, and gift exchanges that always end in joyful mayhem.

    Once February arrives, the festivities begin again when my extended family gathers for our belated celebration. Some of my sisters can’t travel in December, but that second gathering has become its own cherished tradition. It’s a spark of warmth that keeps the season alive well into the new year.

    The Heart of Tradition

    Each of these rituals—whether we’re baking, sharing stories through holiday cards, or sitting around the table—reminds me that traditions aren’t about repetition.

    They’re about remembering who we are. The holidays teach me to slow down, to honor what we’ve grown, and to see abundance in what’s already here.

    When the lights fade and the tree comes down, I tuck the cards into a small box. Their words and faces carry the season’s glow into the months ahead.

    And I’m left with the same quiet truth: home isn’t a place or a moment. It’s a feeling—built from love, gratitude, and the steady rhythm of returning to what matters most.

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    Bread Crumbs of Connection

    They say food is a universal language, but sometimes, it also has a quiet legacy. Eleven years ago, I was on a road trip with my mom, aunt, and sister when we stopped at a small restaurant and ordered Swedish meatballs. I still remember how delicious they were: comforting, perfectly spiced, and unforgettable. That afternoon,…

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  • When Trust Feeds the Soul: Homesteading, Community, and the Power of Showing Up

    When Trust Feeds the Soul: Homesteading, Community, and the Power of Showing Up

    Are you a good judge of character?

    Some people guard their trust like a locked gate—but I’ve never been one of them. In homesteading and in life, I tend to meet others with open hands and an open heart. Out here, community isn’t just a pleasant idea. It’s something we build with every borrowed tool, shared chore, and kind word. I choose to believe the best of people, trusting they’re drawn by the same sense of purpose and generosity that keeps this way of life thriving.

    When we brought our daughter home after she was born, that spirit of community wrapped around us in the most tangible way. We walked into a freshly mopped home, the dishes washed, the floor gleaming, and our table covered in homemade comfort—lasagna, sloppy Joe’s, meatloaf, and warm bread just out of the oven. It wasn’t just food; it was love, poured into every bite. Those acts of kindness reminded me that trust and connection don’t just make a community—they are the community.

    Sure, now and then, I misjudge someone, and disappointment arrives like an unexpected frost. But time and again, choosing trust has brought more blessings than setbacks. It has built friendships rooted in understanding, neighbors who show up without being asked, and a shared sense that we’re stronger together than apart.

    The land teaches that same truth daily. A garden can’t thrive without care, and neither can a community. When we nurture each other—with warmth, patience, and gratitude—we all flourish. That meal train, that clean house, those helping hands—they were proof that the seeds of kindness I try to plant don’t just grow; they multiply. And for that, I’ll always be thankful.

    What’s one way your community has shown up for you when you needed it most?

    If this story touched your heart, spread the warmth! 💛 

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  • The Best Holiday Gifts You Can’t Order Online

    The Best Holiday Gifts You Can’t Order Online

    How Local and Handmade Traditions Make the Season Truly Meaningful

    What if the best holiday gift wasn’t something you ordered in seconds, but something made by a neighbor, a local shop, or your own two hands?

    Gifts That Actually Stick

    Think about it: what was the last gift you really remembered a year later? Chances are, it wasn’t the priciest thing on your list. More often, it’s the homemade jam from a friend’s kitchen. It could be the mug thrown by a local potter. Perhaps it’s the scarf someone knitted while thinking about you. Those kinds of gifts carry a story and quietly say, “You’re worth my time.”

    The Smoked Cream Cheese Surprise

    One of my favorite examples came from a retired farmer who gifted us smoked cream cheese. It was infused with cherry and oak from his backyard smoker. Shared around the table on simple crackers, it tasted like patience and pride. It sparked a whole conversation about how he learned to smoke cheese—something no anonymous online order could ever deliver.

    Family Recipes That Last Generations

    That same spirit shows up in family traditions. In my family, my mom’s kranz kuchen—a crescent-shaped bread layered with dates, brown sugar, and hand-foraged hickory nuts—has been on the holiday table for four generations. It’s not just dessert; it’s a lineage of hands and stories. When someone slices into it, they’re tasting time, memory, and love as much as sugar and spice.

    Local Shops, Real Connections

    Local shops can hold that kind of magic, too. They’re often packed with small-batch cheeses, handmade ornaments, candles, and art that reflect the character of your town. A couple of years ago at a tiny cheese factory, I got chatting with the woman behind the counter. We swapped recipes and laughs. I walked out not just with cheese. She had tucked a quirky chocolate-pairing poster into my bag. No algorithm could have predicted how much that silly poster would delight me. I think of her now and then when I find it among my things.

    Start Small This Holiday

    You don’t have to overhaul your whole holiday routine to lean into this. Start small. Maybe this year you bake a batch of cookies. You could write a poem. Paint a simple ornament. Or put together a little basket featuring a couple of local favorites. Even if you don’t have many nearby shops, you can still support small makers online. Alternatively, share something only you can offer. This could be a playlist, a letter, a framed photo, or a recipe.

    Over time, those small choices can grow into traditions: an annual baking day, a visit to a favorite market, a handmade gift exchange among friends. Years from now, when people look back on “the good holidays,” they probably won’t reminisce about two-day shipping. They’ll remember the smoked cream cheese, the kranz kuchen, the unexpected poster, and the feeling of being truly seen.

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    What’s one handmade or local gift you’ve received (or given) that you still think about? Why did it stick with you?

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  • October’s Echo: A Season of Memory and Magic

    October’s Echo: A Season of Memory and Magic

    Some months pass quietly—but October lingers, glowing with memory, magic, and the warmth of home.

    The Quiet Gift of Autumn’s Return

    I love October. There’s something about this month that feels like coming home. The leaves shift from summer’s green to a fiery mosaic of gold, amber, and crimson. They swirl down streets and crunch softly beneath every step. Porches glow with pumpkins and corn stalks, windows flicker with candlelight, and neighborhoods seem to hum with gentle anticipation.

    I love the comfort of pulling on a warm sweater as the evenings grow cooler. I enjoy wrapping up in a thick blanket. The air carries the first faint scent of wood smoke and fallen leaves. The gardens slow their rhythm. The soil rests after months of tireless giving. The earth itself seems to exhale—a sigh of contentment before winter’s long sleep. There’s peace in harvesting the last tomatoes. There’s tranquility in gathering the last handfuls of herbs. We savor one final taste of summer before the frost settles in.

    A Childhood Revisited Through Pumpkin Light

    But October’s beauty runs deeper than the colors and the cold. It reminds me of past celebrations, those experienced and those I simply wished to experience.

    I think back to the St. Andrew’s costume party I attended once as a child. I can still picture the warm, crowded gym. The scent of caramel and popcorn filled the air. Laughter echoed between the walls. Though the old school is gone now, torn down years ago, the spirit of that place still lingers.

    The party lives on in a new building, but when I returned last year for the first time in three decades—with my own children by my side—it felt as if time hadn’t passed at all. The candy walk, the costume contest, the same spirited laughter—it was all there. Even some of the faces were familiar, now softened by age and framed by parenthood. We smiled at each other knowingly, as if to say, we made it back.

    That night reminded me how October can blur the line between past and present, turning nostalgia into something alive again.

    The Magic of Living the Dreams We Once Imagined

    And of course, there’s Halloween and the magic of trick-or-treating. It is a tradition I always longed for as a child but never had the chance to experience. I used to wonder what it felt like. I imagined the excitement of dressing up. I thought about the sound of other children’s laughter carried on the wind. I dreamt of the thrill of walking house to house, bag full of sweet treasures, under a canopy of stars. For years, it was a wish left unfulfilled, a tiny missing piece of wonder.

    Now, through my children, I can finally live that dream. I watch their anticipation as they choose their costumes—a pirate and Tigger—and plan their routes with careful excitement.

    The afternoon itself feels electric: porch lights glowing like beacons, leaves scattering under quick footsteps, the calls of “thank you!” trailing off into crisp air. I listen to their candy buckets clink, watch their laughter spill into the darkness, and think of all the years I imagined what this would feel like. In their joy, I see both who I was and who I’ve become: a child rediscovering wonder and a parent guiding it forward.

    October, for me, has grown into something sacred—a bridge linking memory and experience, longing and fulfillment. It’s a season that teaches me about cycles, about how endings carry new beginnings quietly within them. Through my children, I relive the magic I once missed, while creating bright new memories all our own.

    When the last porch lights flicker out and my children’s footsteps fade into the cool evening, I feel the month settle gently in my heart. October has a way of staying—with its color, its warmth, its echoes of laughter. It lingers like the glow of a jack-o’-lantern long after the candle inside has gone out.

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    What’s your favorite October memory—the one that still feels alive no matter how many years have passed?

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  • Life by Stratigraphy

    The first sound I remember from that trip wasn’t birdsong or the crackle of firewood—it was my professor’s baritone voice drifting through a soft Michigan mist. Waking to that unlikely serenade, I understood for the first time that geology wasn’t only about rocks. It was about connection.

    I was a sophomore then, half-frozen in an April campsite among classmates who still felt like strangers. We shivered through fog, stumbled through tent poles, and passed trail mix in squeaky vans that smelled of sunscreen and coffee. By the time we gathered around cast-iron pots of jambalaya that evening, laughter had cracked the surface. Those strangers were already turning into companions.

    That weekend held a dozen firsts—my first field notes, my first tent pitched incorrectly, my first realization that landscapes told stories. Stratigraphy became a language: layers pressed with memory, stone turned to archive. We spent days trudging through mud, tracing formations in notebooks, learning to see the earth as something alive. Nights filled with smoke and banjo chords, the kind of tiredness that makes everything simple, everything good.

    Fifteen years later, the same circle still gathers—different campsite, different season, same warmth. We no longer ride in university vans. Now we drive in caravans of minivans and hybrids, dogs panting in the back seats, children singing off-key. Some arrive with spouses, children, and dogs, others with partners who share different rhythms of life. Each presence matters.  The ones without kids often become the fresh energy in the group—playing with children, keeping traditions, reminding us that life is not only about caretaking but also about curiosity, independence, and joy on one’s own terms.

    The jambalaya has been replaced by pudgie pies browned over coals, each stuffed with cheese, vegetables, and pepperoni. Mornings rise with a tangle of sounds—an infant crying, kids chasing dogs, coffee sputtering in a percolator. The hikes are shorter, the pace slower, but the laughter feels unchanged. We talk about work, gardening, art, and aging parents. Between stories of milestones and mishaps, the old tales surface too—professors coaxing us to read the earth, tents blown loose in South Dakota, the mud and sand that never washed out of our journals.

    Geology taught me that layers never vanish; they shift and hold. Those early days formed the base layer of my life: dusty trails, notes stained with wonder, campfires burning into friendship. Above them, new layers rise—my child tugging tent cords, friends trading stories across the fire, dogs circling the light.

    Sometimes I still hear my professor’s voice through the morning hush, calling across time. It echoes now in the laughter of friends, the shouts of children, the quiet gratitude of belonging. Like the rocks I once studied, I carry every layer within me. Together, they form not just a good life—but a whole one.

    What places or experiences have left layers in your life—ones you still carry years later? I’d love to hear your story in the comments.

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  • Guns, Smoke, and Summer Steel

    Guns, Smoke, and Summer Steel

    If you’ve spent any time in farm country, you know that summer is a season steeped in tradition: sweet corn roasting on the grill, fireworks bursting above open fields, and parades weaving through small-town streets. Another tradition that perfectly captures the spirit of summer for me is the roar of engines and the gritty spectacle of a tractor pull.

    This fascination goes back generations. Our grandparents told stories of the early days when tractors were just transforming American agriculture:  mechanical workhorses that symbolized grit, self-reliance, and progress. What began as casual farmyard boasts over who had the stronger machine has since evolved into something far more ceremonial: a celebration of horsepower, heritage, and the unbreakable threads that tie country communities together.

    That’s why, on a sun-drenched Sunday afternoon, I find myself heading to the local gun club, an unexpected but oddly fitting venue, to catch this year’s edition of the Farmersville pull, colorfully named the Guns, Smoke, and Beer Tractor and Truck Pull.

    I find a spot along the chain-link fence, close enough to feel the rumble. Behind the scenes, tractors line up like gladiators awaiting their turn:  some lovingly restored antiques with curved fenders and hand-lettered paint jobs, others futuristic behemoths fitted with exposed engine blocks, massive rear tires, and vertical stacks that shimmer like weapons under the noonday sun. Each machine has its own name, its own backstory, its own fan club.

    The PA system crackles and the announcer wastes no time bringing the crowd to life. The first competitor is already strapping on a helmet. There’s a hush. The green flag lifts.

    Then:  ignition.

    A bellow of power splits the silence. The tractor lurches forward, chained to a sled ominously named The Eliminator. The front wheels lift clean off the clay. Dust flares as the driver leans in, holding the machine straight as the sled ratchets its weight forward, sinking deeper into the earth with every passing foot. The engine howls. My chest vibrates with it.

    That tractor is really working! Photo by Hillary S.

    Instinctively, my hands tighten on the fence. Cheers rise. For a few heartbeats, it feels less like a pastime and more like a proving ground:  man and machine battling inertia in unspoken defiance of gravity and time.

    When the tractor finally grinds to a halt and lets out a victorious hiss, the crowd roars approval. The driver remains still in the cab just long enough to savor it.

    Between runs, the rhythm slows but never stops. A blade-toting grader drags the track smooth again. Kids sprint along the fence pretending to drive their own invisible rigs, engines sputtering gleefully. Neighbors swap guesses on winners while sipping sweating cans of beer and soda. Raffle volunteers roam the crowd with plastic buckets and tickets. From the speakers, the announcer plays local DJ:  blending stats and wit with hometown shout-outs. All the while, the tension builds toward the next burst of combustion.

    And as the event rolls on, camaraderie deepens. Nostalgia mingles with anticipation. Every round adds to a growing patchwork of shared memory:  anecdotes of legendary pulls from years past and parents pointing out last year’s champion to wide-eyed children.

    By early evening, as the final competitors rumble down the track and the engines begin to cool, golden light falls across the dispersing crowd. A breeze kicks up, lifting grit into the sky like smoke from a burn pile. People linger, reluctant to let the day end. No one’s in a rush. Kids hang off the backs of UTVs. Parents gather chairs and grass-filled blankets. There’s laughter, hugs, and long goodbyes.

    Driving home, dust clinging to my shoes and the growl of engines still echoing in my ribs, I realize this wasn’t just a distraction or a show. It was a testament:  to tradition, to craftsmanship, to communities that still gather not just to watch, but to belong.

    And as the countryside stretches before me, each field burnished by the fading sun, I already know: I’ll be back next year, same track, same dust, same roar. Some rituals are worth waiting for.

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  • The Heart of Knowles: Fourth of July Traditions

    The Fourth of July has always been my favorite holiday, no contest. There’s something magical about sun-drenched parades, the smoky drift of cookouts on the breeze, and fireworks crackling against a velvet sky. I’ve always cherished tradition, and for me, nothing says “summer” quite like the annual Fireman’s Picnic in Knowles.

    The Knowles Volunteer Fire Department is legendary: a group of unpaid neighbors who protect our patch of the world from fires and emergencies. The picnic isn’t just fun; it’s a lifeline, funding the equipment and training that keep us safe.

    One summer, the fire department saved our family’s barn. My dad had stored hay that was too wet; days later, it started to smolder. The firemen arrived in force, helping us haul out the hay before disaster struck. I still remember his voice, rough with relief, as he shook each fireman’s hand. After that, our family threw ourselves even more into supporting the picnic and the department.

    Ma always baked chocolate cake with white frosting for the dessert sale. She’d hum as the kitchen filled with the scent of cocoa and sugar, while my sisters and I licked the beaters and squabbled over who’d get the coveted corner piece. My dad, after morning chores, headed to the hamburger stand, donning his money belt and frying up brats and burgers, his face flushed from both heat and pride. When she came of age, my oldest sister joined the fire department.

    Knowles is the kind of tiny town that jokes about its size. “Not many,” the sign reads, and they mean it. The main attractions: a farm equipment dealer, a single church, and two bars that double as gathering spots for miles around. But on the Fourth, Knowles transforms. The population swells as people from neighboring towns descend, armed with lawn chairs, faded blankets, coolers, and sticky popsicles for the kids.

    Knowles is honest about its population.

    Usually, the streets are so quiet you can hear the wind in the cornfields and birds in the trees. But on this day, laughter and music fill the air. Familiar faces blend with distant relatives, old classmates, and newcomers, all drawn together by the promise of celebration.

    The parade route is simple:  a single road, maybe half a mile, sloping downhill in two gentle steps. But for that hour, it feels like the center of the universe.

    The parade kicks off with a bang: the fire department leading in crisp uniforms, the American flag held high. The crowd falls silent; hats come off, hands press over hearts. A volley of blanks cracks through the air, firemen’s cheers bouncing down the street, shaking off the summer’s lull. My heart jumps as the fire trucks rumble past, horns blaring like thunder.

    High school bands follow, their music weaving through the warm air: “America the Beautiful,” then “Sweet Caroline.” I sing along quietly, amazed the band kids don’t melt in those wool uniforms. The color guard spins flags skyward, sequins flashing like tiny fireworks.

    Candy flies next: Tootsie Rolls, root beer barrels, and, if you’re lucky, a “Cow” candy—my favorite, caramel and chocolate (gone now, sadly). Plastic bags in hand, we dart into the street, laughing and dodging tractors and floats, our bags filling with sugary treasure.

    “Got your eye on the ‘Cow’?” my sister whispers, grinning as she snags one. I nod, already plotting my next move.

    Confetti toss during 2024 parade. Photo by Angie H.

    Donnie Feucht (may he rest in peace) pilots his father’s ancient stock truck, honking an extra time just for me. Restored antique tractors chug along, their paint gleaming in the sun as neighbors toss candy. Bigger tractors follow:  massive and modern, though quaint compared to today’s behemoths.

    Horse and rider, and gathering candy during 2024 parade. Photo by Kayla M.

    Horses and farm animals make an appearance. Line dancers perform on a moving hay wagon, their feet steady from many summers stacking bales. State senators stroll by, passing out frisbees and flyers, hoping for votes in the fall. A four-wheeler signals the end, with a “The End” sign tacked to the back, just in case.

    After the parade, we drag our overflowing bags and lawn chairs to the hamburger stand. I watch my dad serve lunch, pride swelling every time he hands a burger to a neighbor. The smell of grilled meat is irresistible; nothing tastes better than a brat with mustard and caramelized onions, washed down with ice-cold soda. Adventurous souls wander to the beer tent, where laughter and music spill onto the grass.

    The picnic has something for everyone: carnival rides for the kids, a toy tractor pull, the ever-popular dunk tank where you can try to soak your favorite fireman. Ring tosses and raffles offer prizes from frozen meat to cash. By the time we trudge back to the car, sunburned and sticky, our hearts are full. The sugar rush fades, but the memories linger.

    As I grew older, life got busier. The Fourth became an excuse for road trips and new adventures. But last year, my husband and I returned to Knowles, this time with our own children in tow. We joined his extended family, feeling again like we had an “in.” Their tradition started years ago with his grandparents, who sat on the same lawn and befriended the homeowner over time. Every year, we sit on that same lawn in their honor.

    Though the parade didn’t start until 11, we arrived late—10:30—and forgot the golden rule: get there by 10. Our punishment was a long trek from the highway, kids in tow, weaving through the crowd. I scanned faces for old friends, hoping for a spark of reconnection. As I set up, my brother-in-law handed me a cold beer with a grin. “It’s five o’clock somewhere,” he said, and everyone laughed, the ice broken instantly.

    Watching the parade through my children’s eyes, beer in hand, I felt the old magic return. The experiences I’d loved as a child were now theirs to discover. I knew we’d be back. As the parade wound down, my son clutched his bag of Tootsie Rolls and root beer barrels, cheeks flushed from darting after candy in the street. My daughter, face sticky with popsicles, clutched a frisbee given to her by a state representative. I glanced at my husband, lawn chair tipped back, and watched my children’s eyes widen as the fire truck’s horn echoed through the town. The “The End” four-wheeler passed by, and my son’s sticky hand found mine. For a moment, the world was just laughter, music, and the shimmer of sequined flags:  a perfect day, passed from one generation to the next.

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