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  • My Mission: Growing Food, Raising Kids, and Building Community — A Path Back to Connection

    My Mission: Growing Food, Raising Kids, and Building Community — A Path Back to Connection

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    “We’re stronger together.”
    — A lesson from the land, the past, and the heart.

    Some days, I find myself wondering why I share so much of my messy, joyful, back-to-the-land life. Then I remember—it’s not just a blog; it’s a declaration of purpose. I’m not just learning to grow food or raise livestock. I’m learning to build a life rooted in connection, resilience, and love—the kind of life that feels increasingly rare in our modern world.

    Growing Food

    My mission comes back to the words that guide everything I do: “Growing food, raising kids, building community.”

    Growing food isn’t just about self-sufficiency; it’s about slowing down and remembering that life takes time. Whether it’s a full garden, a few backyard hens, or a pot of herbs on a sunny windowsill, each act connects us to the earth and to the generations who worked it before us.

    You don’t need acres to begin—just a seed, a container, and a little sunlight.

    Even one small step can be the beginning of a more grounded life. Each seed planted is a reminder that we can create abundance with our own hands.

    Raising Kids

    Just as tending the garden teaches patience, so does parenting. Homesteading is a classroom like no other—muddy, humbling, and full of wonder.

    It teaches our children what no textbook can: that hard work matters, that life is cyclical, and that family is their safe harbor in a sometimes harsh world.

    My hope is that my kids grow up knowing home isn’t merely a place—it’s a legacy we build with care and intention. Whether they keep chickens, plant tomatoes, or simply carry these values forward, I want them to understand where they come from and who they are.

    Building Community

    And then there’s community—the heartbeat of homesteading and, I believe, our survival as humans.

    American society often tells us that strength comes from independence—that we should manage everything ourselves, and outsource what we can’t, because we’re too exhausted to do it all. But that version of “strength” leaves us burned out and disconnected.

    True strength doesn’t grow in isolation—it blossoms in interdependence.

    Sometimes that means swapping seeds or recipes; other times, it’s checking on a neighbor or being brave enough to ask for help. We were never meant to do this alone.

    Lessons from the Past

    When I think about how far we’ve drifted from those roots, I can’t help but look back with respect. Our great-grandparents understood community in ways we’ve forgotten.

    Their lives weren’t easy—many faced relentless hardship. I once read about children in rural Wisconsin in the 1930s who walked miles to town barefoot, carrying their shoes so they wouldn’t wear them out. They’d put them on only once they reached town, because those shoes had to last—and often be passed down to the next child.

    Those stories remind me that while the past wasn’t perfect, it carried wisdom worth keeping. People ate real food, raised resilient children, and looked out for their neighbors. They knew that survival wasn’t just about grit—it was about connection and care.

    Planting Hope

    In the end, that’s what I want my life—and this blog—to reflect. I want to inspire others to live intentionally, grow their own food, raise their families with love, and reconnect with the people around them.

    Because when we nurture the soil, our children, and each other, we’re planting more than gardens—we’re planting hope. And in that hope, we rediscover a simple truth our ancestors never forgot:

    We are always stronger together.

    Now it’s your turn. How do you balance modern life’s demands with a desire to live more simply? Tell me about it in the comments. Let’s start a conversation!

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  • We’re Stronger Together: Homesteading, Family, and the Power of a Village

    We’re Stronger Together: Homesteading, Family, and the Power of a Village

    If you had a freeway billboard, what would it say?

    “Real life — the good kind — isn’t a solo project. It’s meant to be shared.”

    If I Had a Freeway Billboard, It Would Say:
    “We’re Stronger Together.”
    Simple. Short. True.

    That phrase might only take a second to read, but it’s something I’ve come to believe deeply over time. Homesteading, parenting, and everyday life keep reminding me that none of us truly thrive in isolation. We can’t — and we’re not meant to.

    The Myth of “Doing It All”
    I’ve tried to “do it all” before. Maybe you have, too.

    I remember one quiet afternoon watching our toddler play alone in the wide stretch of our backyard. Sunlight shone on his light blonde hair. Chickens were clucking somewhere behind him. The smell of wet grass lingered after the rain. My husband and I had been talking about having another child, but the thought brought a flood of questions. Could we manage it all — raising little ones, keeping the homestead going, working — without losing our minds or each other?

    That moment planted a seed. I didn’t know it then, but it would change how we lived. Even though we were proud of our self-sufficiency, trying to do everything alone left us stretched thin and quietly disconnected.

    Real life — the good kind — isn’t a solo project. It’s meant to be shared.

    In the four years since that afternoon, so much has changed. We moved closer to family and, not long after, welcomed our daughter — another beautiful whirlwind of toddler energy. Now we have more of a village to help raise her. And in turn, we can show up for others.

    That web of giving and receiving has made all the difference. It’s turned our days into something more sustainable, more joyful, and far more connected.

    Why “Together” Matters
    It’s easy to imagine strength as something proven alone. But real strength is interwoven — built through connection, trust, and shared effort.

    It’s the kind that shows up when neighbors help fix our house, when friends drop off soup unasked, or when laughter spills out during chores that would otherwise feel endless.

    On the homestead, togetherness looks like shared harvests and muddy boots side by side. The garden gets weeded faster when more than one person is pulling. The work lightens, and the smiles come easier.

    That’s the kind of strength that fills the spaces where frustration or loneliness might otherwise take root.

    And that same truth guides the way we’re raising our kids.

    Building “Together” at Home
    In our family, we talk a lot about contributing to the household — because this home’s success belongs to all of us.

    Since I started giving our six-year-old a daily job, he’s made it clear he doesn’t always love it. He sighs, he drags his feet, and he grumbles his way through — but he does it.

    And afterward, something shifts. My load feels lighter, our days run smoother, and I have more time to simply be with him — to laugh, to listen, to connect.

    The lesson is simple but powerful: we build strength, resilience, and belonging not by doing everything ourselves, but by doing our part together.

    What That Billboard Really Means
    So if someone sped past my billboard and read the words “We’re stronger together,” I’d hope it would land right when they needed it most — in a moment of overwhelm, or when they’re trying to carry too much alone.

    Because strength doesn’t have to mean solitude. Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is reach out a hand — or take one that’s being offered.

    After all, the strongest gardens — like families — grow best when many hands tend them.

    And that truth keeps my feet steady, season after season.

    We’re stronger. Together.

    What’s one way someone has shown up for you recently? Please share your stories in the comments.

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  • My Biggest Influences from Family, Homesteading, and Simple Living

    My Biggest Influences from Family, Homesteading, and Simple Living

    Who are the biggest influences in your life?

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    simple living inspiration, homesteading lifestyle, family-centered life, personal growth journey, rural living values, community and connection, self-sufficiency and family, gratitude and intention

    Influence comes in many forms—some quiet and steady, others bold and life-changing. Lately, I’ve been reflecting on who’s helped shape my journey toward simple living, family-centered growth, and self-sufficiency.

    Books That Shape My Thinking
    Books have always been my greatest teachers. I can spend hours tucked into a good nonfiction guide—whether it’s about self-improvement, gardening, or preserving old homestead traditions. The works of Midwestern authors like Jerry Apps hold a special place in my heart. His book about rural school life reminded me of the values that built strong communities: honesty, grit, and compassion. Reading it inspired me to start writing again and to live more intentionally.

    Another influential book is Ben Logan’s The Land Remembers. His stories of growing up in Wisconsin capture what I love most about rural living. He talks about connection to the land, rhythm of the seasons, and the quiet lessons found in hard work. These authors remind me that storytelling preserves the values and wisdom worth passing on.

    Just as books have shaped how I think about simple living, the people around me continue to shape how I live it each day.

    Community That Inspires Me
    Social media has become a surprisingly powerful influence in my life. My Facebook followers bring so much joy, encouragement, and creativity. We swap garden tips, share family stories, and remind each other that we’re not alone in pursuing intentional living.

    What’s even more special is how online connections can grow into real friendships. Just last week, a friend from high school reached out after reading one of my posts. We met for coffee and had a wonderful conversation. It’s one that bridged years and reminded me how connection can start anywhere, even with a simple post.
    Platforms like YouTube have also become part of my daily rhythm.

    Watching fellow homesteaders and lifestyle creators encourages me to keep learning new skills and to approach life’s routines with curiosity and gratitude.

    Family That Grounds Me
    At the heart of my life is family. My parents and in-laws are always ready to help. Sometimes, it’s lending a hand with a project. Other times, it’s offering wisdom when I need it most. My husband is my constant partner—steadfast, kind, and right beside me whether we’re tending the garden or tackling challenges together.

    My children have become my best teachers. They remind me to slow down, play, and find joy in the small things. Through them, I’ve learned patience, creativity, and how to truly appreciate everyday blessings.

    And my sisters hold a special place in my heart. We share humor, sorrow, and plenty of homesteading projects. Their support and laughter keep me rooted, even when life feels hectic.

    Living and Learning Together
    Every influence—books, community, and family—forms part of the foundation that supports my growth. They motivate me to write, to homestead with purpose, and to live each day with gratitude. Growth doesn’t happen in isolation; it blossoms through shared stories, nurturing relationships, and open hearts.

    Now it’s your turn. Who or what have you found to be influential in your life?

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  • The Heart of Knowles: Fourth of July Traditions

    The Fourth of July has always been my favorite holiday, no contest. There’s something magical about sun-drenched parades, the smoky drift of cookouts on the breeze, and fireworks crackling against a velvet sky. I’ve always cherished tradition, and for me, nothing says “summer” quite like the annual Fireman’s Picnic in Knowles.

    The Knowles Volunteer Fire Department is legendary: a group of unpaid neighbors who protect our patch of the world from fires and emergencies. The picnic isn’t just fun; it’s a lifeline, funding the equipment and training that keep us safe.

    One summer, the fire department saved our family’s barn. My dad had stored hay that was too wet; days later, it started to smolder. The firemen arrived in force, helping us haul out the hay before disaster struck. I still remember his voice, rough with relief, as he shook each fireman’s hand. After that, our family threw ourselves even more into supporting the picnic and the department.

    Ma always baked chocolate cake with white frosting for the dessert sale. She’d hum as the kitchen filled with the scent of cocoa and sugar, while my sisters and I licked the beaters and squabbled over who’d get the coveted corner piece. My dad, after morning chores, headed to the hamburger stand, donning his money belt and frying up brats and burgers, his face flushed from both heat and pride. When she came of age, my oldest sister joined the fire department.

    Knowles is the kind of tiny town that jokes about its size. “Not many,” the sign reads, and they mean it. The main attractions: a farm equipment dealer, a single church, and two bars that double as gathering spots for miles around. But on the Fourth, Knowles transforms. The population swells as people from neighboring towns descend, armed with lawn chairs, faded blankets, coolers, and sticky popsicles for the kids.

    Knowles is honest about its population.

    Usually, the streets are so quiet you can hear the wind in the cornfields and birds in the trees. But on this day, laughter and music fill the air. Familiar faces blend with distant relatives, old classmates, and newcomers, all drawn together by the promise of celebration.

    The parade route is simple:  a single road, maybe half a mile, sloping downhill in two gentle steps. But for that hour, it feels like the center of the universe.

    The parade kicks off with a bang: the fire department leading in crisp uniforms, the American flag held high. The crowd falls silent; hats come off, hands press over hearts. A volley of blanks cracks through the air, firemen’s cheers bouncing down the street, shaking off the summer’s lull. My heart jumps as the fire trucks rumble past, horns blaring like thunder.

    High school bands follow, their music weaving through the warm air: “America the Beautiful,” then “Sweet Caroline.” I sing along quietly, amazed the band kids don’t melt in those wool uniforms. The color guard spins flags skyward, sequins flashing like tiny fireworks.

    Candy flies next: Tootsie Rolls, root beer barrels, and, if you’re lucky, a “Cow” candy—my favorite, caramel and chocolate (gone now, sadly). Plastic bags in hand, we dart into the street, laughing and dodging tractors and floats, our bags filling with sugary treasure.

    “Got your eye on the ‘Cow’?” my sister whispers, grinning as she snags one. I nod, already plotting my next move.

    Confetti toss during 2024 parade. Photo by Angie H.

    Donnie Feucht (may he rest in peace) pilots his father’s ancient stock truck, honking an extra time just for me. Restored antique tractors chug along, their paint gleaming in the sun as neighbors toss candy. Bigger tractors follow:  massive and modern, though quaint compared to today’s behemoths.

    Horse and rider, and gathering candy during 2024 parade. Photo by Kayla M.

    Horses and farm animals make an appearance. Line dancers perform on a moving hay wagon, their feet steady from many summers stacking bales. State senators stroll by, passing out frisbees and flyers, hoping for votes in the fall. A four-wheeler signals the end, with a “The End” sign tacked to the back, just in case.

    After the parade, we drag our overflowing bags and lawn chairs to the hamburger stand. I watch my dad serve lunch, pride swelling every time he hands a burger to a neighbor. The smell of grilled meat is irresistible; nothing tastes better than a brat with mustard and caramelized onions, washed down with ice-cold soda. Adventurous souls wander to the beer tent, where laughter and music spill onto the grass.

    The picnic has something for everyone: carnival rides for the kids, a toy tractor pull, the ever-popular dunk tank where you can try to soak your favorite fireman. Ring tosses and raffles offer prizes from frozen meat to cash. By the time we trudge back to the car, sunburned and sticky, our hearts are full. The sugar rush fades, but the memories linger.

    As I grew older, life got busier. The Fourth became an excuse for road trips and new adventures. But last year, my husband and I returned to Knowles, this time with our own children in tow. We joined his extended family, feeling again like we had an “in.” Their tradition started years ago with his grandparents, who sat on the same lawn and befriended the homeowner over time. Every year, we sit on that same lawn in their honor.

    Though the parade didn’t start until 11, we arrived late—10:30—and forgot the golden rule: get there by 10. Our punishment was a long trek from the highway, kids in tow, weaving through the crowd. I scanned faces for old friends, hoping for a spark of reconnection. As I set up, my brother-in-law handed me a cold beer with a grin. “It’s five o’clock somewhere,” he said, and everyone laughed, the ice broken instantly.

    Watching the parade through my children’s eyes, beer in hand, I felt the old magic return. The experiences I’d loved as a child were now theirs to discover. I knew we’d be back. As the parade wound down, my son clutched his bag of Tootsie Rolls and root beer barrels, cheeks flushed from darting after candy in the street. My daughter, face sticky with popsicles, clutched a frisbee given to her by a state representative. I glanced at my husband, lawn chair tipped back, and watched my children’s eyes widen as the fire truck’s horn echoed through the town. The “The End” four-wheeler passed by, and my son’s sticky hand found mine. For a moment, the world was just laughter, music, and the shimmer of sequined flags:  a perfect day, passed from one generation to the next.

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