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  • Homesteading Fails School: Practice Mistakes Before Buying Chickens

    Come up with a crazy business idea.

    My Crazy Homesteading Business Idea: The Fails-First Farm School

    Today’s WordPress prompt asked for a crazy business idea. Mine? A homesteading school that teaches you how to fail on purpose—before you waste money on chickens that fly away or bread dense enough to break a brick wall.

    I Grew Up on a Farm But Still Don’t Know How to Homestead

    Here’s the irony: I grew up on a Wisconsin dairy farm, surrounded by cattle and hay bales. But when I wanted to start homesteading—gardening, chickens, bread baking—I had no clue. Why? Because as a kid, I steered toward book learning and school, not the daily farm rhythm. So when I started, I was buying homesteading books, watching YouTube videos, and Googling recipes (and honestly, I often still do).

    If society functioned like it should, we’d learn these skills at home. Anthropological records show traditional societies taught this way. Kids watch parents garden, tend animals, preserve food, then gradually practice under supervision—making mistakes, getting guidance, building proficiency over years. That’s how you end up with adults who can butcher a chicken or predict the weather by cloud shapes.

    Modern Parents Can’t Teach Like This

    But modern working parents? We’re supposed to clock 40+ hours, chase carpools, and collapse before ordering takeout. No time or patience left to let kids fail at kneading dough a hundred times. So we hit 30, feel the pull toward growing food and raising kids closer to the land, and… Google “how to backyard chickens.” Then panic when they escape.

    Enter: Fails-First Farm School. A place to safely mess up before you invest in your own setup.

    The Weekend Curriculum: Practice Failing Safely

    Spend 48 hours doing what parents used to teach over childhood:

    • Bread Track: Intentionally overproof one loaf, underproof another, nail the third. Learn by comparing failures side-by-side.
    • Chicken Track: Chase, catch, trim nails, clean coop—with someone saying, “Yup, we all look ridiculous first time.”
    • Garden Track: Plant mini plots showing overwatering, underwatering, crowding—then fix them.

    No perfection pretense. Just realistic practice for working parents craving growing food, raising kids, building community—but starting from zero hands-on knowledge.

    Who Needs This

    • Farm kids like me who chose books over barn chores
    • City parents feeling the homesteading pull
    • Working moms who want chickens but fear failure
    • Anyone missing the apprenticeship their grandparents got naturally

    Why This Fits My Homestead

    Growing food, raising kids, building community isn’t learned from screens. It’s watching, failing, practicing under kind eyes. Modern life stole that apprenticeship. Fails-First Farm School gives it back to adults who need it now.

    Would I Actually Do It?

    Right now, this is just a coffee-fueled “what if.” I’m still the woman who periodically produces a brick of sandwich bread. But watching working parents like me Google “chicken won’t lay,” I keep thinking: someone should build this.

    What if we let working parents fail forward instead of faking perfection?

    What’s your biggest homesteading fail? Drop it below—I bet it makes a great lesson.

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