Tag: personal reflection

  • Real Happiness on Four Wheels: A Tribute to My First Car

    Real Happiness on Four Wheels: A Tribute to My First Car

    What is your all time favorite automobile?

    If you ever want to understand what makes someone tick, ask them about their first car. Mine wasn’t glamorous or fast, but it carried more freedom and memories than any fancy model ever could.

    My all-time favorite automobile was the first one I ever owned—a maroon 1996 Oldsmobile Ciera. My dad found it sitting in a driveway after its elderly owner had passed away. It hadn’t moved in two years, and when he got a deal on it, we discovered why: the engine seals had failed, and gasoline had leaked into the oil. Once repaired, though, that stubborn old thing came to life—and stayed that way for years.

    We called it the Red Chariot, and in time, the name fit perfectly. That car saw me through the end of high school, college, and most of grad school—about an hour’s drive away. I learned responsibility with every commute: how to check oil, how to handle Wisconsin winters, and how to hear when something “just didn’t sound right.” It carried me into adulthood one modest mile at a time.

    The Red Chariot also became part of my love story. My boyfriend (now husband) and I drove it on little adventures whenever life allowed—from southeastern Wisconsin to the Upper Peninsula of Michigan and all the way down to the Great Smoky Mountains. The brakes whined on long descents, the air conditioner worked only half the time, but we didn’t care. Those drives were full of laughter, music, and cheap motel coffee—memories that still smell faintly like gasoline and pine trees.

    Then came The Event. A couple of weeks before, I noticed the steering wheel sitting just slightly off-center. I brushed it off as nothing serious. A week later, I parked by a friend’s house, grabbed my bags, and joined my parents and boyfriend for a long-planned road trip out west. We returned sunburned, travel-tired, and happy. I slid back into the driver’s seat of my car, turned the key, and immediately noticed it—an odd, “extra bouncy” feeling as the road hummed beneath me.

    So I called my boyfriend, the trained mechanic, and asked, “How do I tell if a tire’s flat while I’m driving?”

    Without missing a beat, he chuckled, “Easy. You pull over, get out, and if it’s flat—you’ll know.”

    Classic him. I pulled over anyway, checked all four tires, and found them just fine. Satisfied, I merged back onto the highway and carried on.

    The next day, he slid under the car to replace the shocks. That’s when he found it: rust had eaten clean through part of the frame, separating it from the rear axle. The Red Chariot had given everything it had. There was no fixing it this time.

    We didn’t send it off with fanfare, just a quiet goodbye. Still, I couldn’t help running my hand along its faded maroon hood one last time. That car had carried me through some of the most formative years of my life—independence, love, responsibility, and grown-up laughter. It had been my safe space, my escape, and sometimes, my therapy room on wheels.

    The Red Chariot was never showy or high-tech, but it was steady. It started most mornings, forgave my mistakes, and brought me home, every time. In a world obsessed with upgrades and flash, that simple dependability feels almost sacred.

    I’ve driven newer cars since then, ones with sleeker paint and better gas mileage. But none have had quite the same heartbeat. Because some vehicles don’t just drive you to places—they carry you through chapters of your life.

    So yes, my favorite car was an old, rusty Oldsmobile. It taught me that what matters isn’t horsepower or luxury—it’s heart, loyalty, and the quiet comfort of something that keeps showing up, mile after mile.

    That little maroon Ciera might be gone, but in some small way, it’s still driving with me.


    Your turn—what was your first car? Did it have a name, quirks, or memories that still make you smile? Share your first-car stories in the comments below. I’d love to hear them!

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    Echoes of Elmhurst: Remembering a Lost Farming Heritage

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  • The Men Who Shaped Me: Love, Marriage, and Life Lessons from Our Homestead

    The Men Who Shaped Me: Love, Marriage, and Life Lessons from Our Homestead

    Describe a man who has positively impacted your life.

    When I’m kneeling in the garden with my hands in the soil, I often think about how deeply the men in my life have shaped the person I’ve become. From the way I plant a seed to how I nurture my family, their lessons live everywhere in our homestead. Each one taught me something about hard work, humor, grace, and love that now guides how I grow both our garden and our life together.


    My dad, for all his imperfections, taught me that steady work and community build both fences and character. His lessons come to mind whenever I face a task that takes time, patience, and persistence. It could be when I’m tending a sick animal or planting a new garden bed.


    My high school choir and creative writing teachers showed me that beauty lives in both sound and language. From them I learned that creativity, like gardening, flourishes slowly, needing room, courage, and care. Later, my university professor proved that intelligence doesn’t have to stand apart from humor. The best minds often laugh easily and love deeply.


    My past and present work mentors each modeled different kinds of strength and leadership. They also remind me that passion means little without purpose. And my father‑in‑law has quietly taught me the power of service. The quiet, steadfast kind that grounds a family and gives meaning to the work of each day.


    Still, if I had to choose just one man who has most profoundly shaped my life, it would be my husband — my companion through every season. We started out as naive teenagers, knowing little about love and even less about life. Over the years, we’ve built something sturdy and honest: a relationship rooted in communication, respect, and shared goals. We’ve learned to disagree without tearing at the foundation, celebrate without comparison, and choose each other even when life feels heavy.


    Together, we also learned how to be parents — fumbling through the sleepless nights and uncertain firsts. Parenthood stretched us, revealing both our flaws and our capacity for grace. It taught us that raising children isn’t just about shaping them. It’s about allowing them to shape us too.


    When I look around at the life we’ve built, I see our home standing steady on its foundation. The garden is growing richer each year. I see traces of every lesson those men passed along. Most of all, I see the love my husband and I have tended through each season, like the soil beneath our feet. It’s worked by hand, fed by patience, and full of promise.


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