A Proud Badger Journey: Lessons, Friendships, and Lifelong Connections at UW–Madison

A Proud Badger Journey
They say you never forget where you came from—especially if where you came from taught you who you are. For me, that place is the University of Wisconsin–Madison. I’m a proud Badger through and through, and UW–Madison shaped my future in ways I never expected.
It took me about four and a half years to earn my undergraduate degree. I didn’t take the straightest path, but somewhere between long nights in the library, crowded buses, and the first hints of autumn around Lake Mendota, I found my footing. The campus pulsed with life—students weaving through lecture halls, the buzz of State Street on game days, and the sound of “On, Wisconsin!” echoing across the stadium. UW–Madison wasn’t just where I studied; it was where I started to become myself.
From Research to Teaching
When graduation rolled around, the job market was rough. At the time, I was working as an undergraduate researcher for a graduate student, helping with data collection and analysis. What started as a temporary position quickly became a turning point. My mentor didn’t just hand out assignments—he encouraged curiosity. He taught me to think critically, to ask better questions, and to explore the “why” behind what we were testing.
With his guidance, I learned to build my own hypotheses, test them, and interpret my results. Eventually, I put together my first research poster and presented it at a conference of around 400 people. Standing there, explaining my work and answering questions, I realized I truly enjoyed translating complicated ideas into something approachable. That experience changed how I saw myself—I wasn’t just completing assignments; I was discovering my own potential.
By the time I finished my undergraduate studies, my curiosity had outgrown the classroom. I wanted to keep asking questions. So when the department offered me funding for a full research project, tuition coverage, health insurance, and a modest stipend, it felt like the universe was giving me a nudge forward. I said yes, and graduate school became my next step.
Graduate school came with a new kind of challenge. I served as a teaching assistant for soil mechanics, which pushed me far outside my comfort zone. Standing in front of a classroom for the first time, trying to explain shear strength and compaction testing, I learned quickly that teaching requires more than technical knowledge—it takes patience, clarity, and a calm voice when questions come faster than answers.
That experience reshaped me. I discovered that true understanding isn’t about what you know—it’s about what you can help others learn. It also taught me time management, humility, and confidence under pressure. By the end of my program, I felt ready for what came next, both professionally and personally.
Shortly before graduation, I received a job offer in my field from a nearby city. It was the perfect next step and proof that all those late nights and lessons had paid off.
The Friendships That Last
Even now, years later, that connection to Madison hasn’t faded. Some of my closest friendships were born there, forged through shared deadlines, football games, and spontaneous coffee breaks. A few of us still make time each year for a camping trip at a local state park—a weekend to slow down, unplug, and remember who we were when we met.
Many of us are married now, raising families and chasing careers, but that same camaraderie still lives strong. And true to Badger tradition, every alumni wedding includes one sure thing: “Jump Around.” The moment those opening notes hit, every Badger in the room is on their feet, laughing and bouncing as if we’re back in the student section again. That song has become our unspoken promise—we may have grown up, but we haven’t grown apart.
Looking back, my UW–Madison years were about much more than degrees or professional milestones. They were about growth—learning how to ask better questions, finding mentors who believed in me, and building friendships that stand the test of time.
The University gave me an education, yes—but also perspective, gratitude, and a lasting sense of belonging.
Once a Badger, always a Badger.

If you’re a fellow UW–Madison alum (or college grad with fond memories), I’d love to hear your story. What lesson, tradition, or friendship from your college days has stayed with you the longest? Share below — let’s celebrate the memories that never fade.

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