Practical Homesteading

Month: March 2026

  • Perfect Pan-Fried Fish Recipe | Ice Fishing Family Time

    Ice Fishing Brothers and Perfect Pan-Fried Fish

    My husband’s been ice fishing more with his brother lately — and I love it.

    He gets fresh air, laughter, and some friendly competition. And him coming home refreshed with rosy cheeks and a bucket of perch or bluegills (he always brags about outfishing his brother, but I never know what’s true).

    Some of the perch we cook

    Here’s the recipe that makes it all worthwhile — simple homestead cooking at its best:

    Perfect Pan-Fried Fish Recipe (Serves 4)

    Prep time: 10 minutes | Cook time: 10 minutes | Total: 20 minutes

    Ingredients

    • 1–1½ lbs fish fillets (perch, walleye, tilapia, or catfish)
    • Dredge: ⅔ cup flour, ⅓ cup cornmeal, 2 tsp seasoned salt, ½ tsp pepper, ½ tsp garlic powder, ½ tsp onion powder
    • ¼–⅓ inch lard, tallow, or coconut oil (we use lard from our pigs)
    • Lemon wedges + tartar sauce for serving

    Instructions

    1. Prep fish: Cut into ⅛ inch (3mm) pieces. Drain but don’t pat dry.
    2. Mix dredge: Whisk dry ingredients. (My years of tweaking: more cornmeal = better crunch.)
    3. Heat skillet: Cast iron over medium-high until fat shimmers (350°F).
    4. Fry: Dredge fish, fry 3–4 min per side until golden.
    5. Finish: Drain on paper towels, salt while hot. Serve immediately.

    Pro Tips for Crispy Fish

    • Thickness: 3mm pieces cook evenly, never dry.
    • Cornmeal magic: Creates perfect crunch.
    • Hot oil: Sizzles immediately = crisp exterior.

    Serve with: Coleslaw + potatoes, homemade fries, or simple greens.

    Why This Works for Real Families

    Forgiving, fast, uses pantry staples. Whether ice fishing haul or store fillets, it delivers crispy, golden fish kids devour. Using our pig lard makes it true homestead cooking.

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  • Growing Where We’re Planted: Moving Closer to Family and Letting Go of Fate

    Growing Where We’re Planted: Moving Closer to Family and Letting Go of Fate

    Do you believe in fate/destiny?

    No, I really don’t believe in fate or destiny. I don’t think anyone’s life is completely prewritten. Our paths are shaped by the choices we make, the help we accept, and the way we respond when things get messy. Still, some circumstances are stronger than our willpower alone, and none of us can do it without support — from faith, family, or good friends who remind us we’re not alone.

    ## A Family Move That Tested Our Strength

    A few years ago, my husband and I decided we wanted to live closer to our families, who were about two hours away. We were rooted on an 18-acre homestead — beautiful but not easy to leave behind. I was pregnant at the time and caring for our three-year-old, running on fumes while my husband carried most of the physical load.

    He managed the heavy lifting and trips back and forth, while I coordinated with the real estate agent, cleaned, packed, transferred doctors, and researched schools. It was exhausting work, physically and mentally. Change doesn’t always feel like courage — sometimes, it’s just stubbornness and persistence one long day after another.

    ## Lessons in Change and Support

    Through countless trips, family help, and many take‑out dinners, we finally made the move. Looking back, that season taught me how much support truly matters when facing big life changes. We can often change more than we think — and when we can’t, we can still find ways to live fully in the situation we’re in.

    That perspective has shaped how I understand personal growth and mindset. The biggest shifts often happen quietly — in how we think, what we choose to let go of, and how we lean on the people who love us. Growth doesn’t always look graceful; sometimes it’s just persistence disguised as survival.

    ## Finding Peace Through the Serenity Prayer

    When I reach the limits of what I can control, I take comfort in the serenity prayer. It reminds me to seek the courage to change what I can, the grace to accept what I can’t, and the wisdom to know the difference.

    Maybe that’s not destiny at all — maybe it’s the steady, imperfect work of growing where we’re planted and finding grace along the way.

    Feature Photo by Alicia Christin Gerald on Unsplash

    How do you think about fate versus choice in your own life? Have you ever made a big move or change like this?

    I’d love to hear your story in the comments—what helped you get through a season of big transition?

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